Why most Muslimahs have a hard time attracting
the kind of brother they are searching for marriage
...and what to do about it...

Dear Sister,

What if I were to tell you the key to attracting marriage proposals and turning the proposal
from your Mr. Right into a commitment for marriage comes down to a skill I call "Speak
His Language"...

What if I were to also to tell you that if you KNEW how to speak your Mr. Right's language
you could save yourself THREE YEARS in getting married. (According to my surveys of
hundreds of sisters, they told me that they have spent on average 3.5 years pro-actively
looking to get married and many still are NOT married.)

But at the same time if you DIDN'T know how to speak your Mr. Right's language (most
single sister's don't) you will still be single and alone wondering, "Where are those decent
brothers?"       

What if I were to also tell you that I believe our talented, bright, religious, pious, and
experienced Muslim sisters out there should NOT be overlooked and I want to teach you
how to "speak his language" so you can get married in sha Allah.

I've spent the past few years working with sisters one on one on their marriage related goals, drowned myself in all topics related to marriage, surveyed and observed single sisters and...

 I discovered something shocking...

When I was conducting interviews with single Muslim sisters I asked
them to do the following:

“Describe yourself in a few sentences so I could in turn describe you to a brother who I think may be a potential suitor.”

I haven't heard you describe yourself for marriage or read your marriage profile to make a judgment.

However, almost EVERY sister told me what she does NOT want in a
marriage; the kind of brother she does NOT want to meet. Hardly ANY
sister actually answered the question. The few sisters who did answer gave short, one-liner responses.

After listening to and reading the descriptions of dozens of sisters
describing themselves for marriage, it became PAINFULLY CLEAR to
me why sisters, even the ones who don't see themselves as having
"issues", are finding it hard to find and meet the kind of practicing brother they are searching for.

it comes down to this...

Many Sisters have no idea
how to present themselves for marriage

Now when Mr. Right hears your description for the first time, he is looking for certain words, phrases, and looking for mannerisms to be displayed by you that would allow him to consider you as a wife not just
any other sister in Islam. Now I wanted to give you some valuable examples of how definitely NOT to present yourself for marriage. 

Sh. Yaser Birjas, a Practimate faculty member with over a decade's worth of experience working with Muslims in relation to marriage, was saying a while ago a father came to him with his daughter's marriage resume asking him to help with finding his daughter a potential husband. So after Sh. Yaser took a look at the marriage resume he told the father:

"I thought you wanted me to look for a potential husband for your daughter, not a job!" What she described in all those pages could be summarized in two letters: MD.

Now here's another example...

What happens when the first thing you say about yourself, or your friend says about you is: "She is 26 years old, and has a degree in chemistry, and she is currently in grad school." Or, "…is working in a lab called XYZ."

From the brother's perspective, he hears a description that says little (or nothing) about what he is looking for in a wife, aside from
“educated.”

Muslim Men dont feel a sense of urgency
when it comes to marriage like women do

The first impression you leave off is almost always a LASTING one. Sad but true... for a Muslim man he sees the disproportionate ratio of women to men and feels he has ALL the time in the world to choose the right woman for him. 

What that means for YOU is that unless Mr. Right hears a description of you that WOWS him from whomever is representing you or at the time of the proposal he may NOT feel that attraction for you even if you are a "good sister". 

Again as the statistics show, there are a lot of "good sisters" that have NOT been successful in getting married and are entering their 30s...    Things get REALLY complicated then because you enter the whole sensitive issue of becoming "expired" on the marriage market and for a man with MANY options he'll always aim at the "younger crowd".

Here is the Bottom Line...

To get married to Mr. Right you MUST learn how to speak about yourself in a way that allows you to be confident, beautiful in your modesty, and will connect with the words and thoughts in the mind of your Mr. Right.

I've put together the Speak His Language to help you think about the words, phrases, feelings, and qualities that you would choose to describe yourself for Mr. Right.

This is a mini-program that I've recorded as a video for you that you can watch from the convenience of your home as many times as you want.

Remember — you want to highlight the qualities which matter a lot to him, NOT what makes you fall in love with your own self! There is no quick-fix formula that's going to get you married overnight, but I, at the very least, want to help you in sha Allah by mastering this important first step.