In “Find Your Mr. Right” 8 Week Online Seminar, we’ll go over your fears and worries and how you can overcome them, in sha Allah.

Click here to learn more about the program.

NOTE: If you’ve experienced a traumatic event in your life, then this program will definitely help you, but it will NOT go in-depth into solving past traumas and hurts from a clinical perspective. I would love to see you inside the program.

I would really appreciate your help, if you can answer the following three questions:

1. How long have you been actively searching to find your Mr. Right? (be specific)

2. How many proposals did you get since then? (be specific)

3. Looking at other sisters that you know who got married around you, how many more months or years do you think it will be before you get married? Use an average from all the sisters who got married around you. (Yes, only Allah knows the future. I just want to understand what your REALISTIC expectation is).

IMPORTANT: Use a nickname to stay anonymous.

Jazaki Allahu khayr for your help.

- Megan Wyatt

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Here’s the entire question:

Assalamu Alaikum Megan,

Thank you for the webinar.  It was very well researched and it seems you did a very thorough job.

However, from what you and Shaykh Yaser Birjas said, it seemed I would have to “market” myself as someone who is the complete opposite of what I really am.

I am a career oriented woman who wants to have a career and a family and believes it can be done simultaneously, because I see it every day around me, especially among non-Muslim couples. I really passionately do not like cooking. I’m looking for a spouse who would be supportive of what I might want in life too, not just someone who wants me to cook and clean and raise his kids for him.

However, I am not surprised at your research, because those are the kinds of men I mostly meet, whose questions to me are: will you stay home with the kids, and do you cook? It does not matter what their level of education is. I find that especially true among religious-minded men. 
I find that the more religious they are, the more they want the wife to stay at home.

So my question to you is: which demographic did you meet that would be open to a career-oriented and religious wife? Am I asking for too much? 
Also, are you open to counselling men to be more receptive to career-minded women? There are many pros to having a wife who works as well. It is really amazing to me that it is only among Muslims that I see this mindset; among all the other religions, it is seen as an asset. Does that really mean that to get what I am looking for, I would have to look outside my religion, which is definitely not what I want?

What does it say about our men if they cannot tolerate a spouse who might be just as successful and qualified as them? Isn’t that also an issue that should be addressed widely in our community?

I would hate to think that the only way for me to get married to a “nice” guy is to become the complete opposite of what I am, or market myself as that. I know women who have falsely marketed themselves, and have gotten married, and that has not been fair for either spouse, and I certainly do not want to go down that route.

After you watch the video, share your comments with me, below.

- Megan Wyatt

In this video, I’ll share with you:

• >> One mindset shift that will make the difference, insha’Allah, between — the brother you are interested in for marriage — moving ahead or breaking off the proposal with you.

• >> Two arenas where a brother may NOT be willing to compromise, even if he is looking for a sister who is educated and involved.

• >> A very forward-thinking advice that shows you the distinction between a wife and a halal girlfriend from a brother’s perspective

• >> How you can answer a question that is always in the back of his mind, with confidence

Now, I want you to share the biggest insight you have right now or any follow up questions that pop in your mind (in the comments sections below)

- Megan Wyatt

P.S. I’ll be opening the door for registration for “Find Your Mr. Right” 8 Week Online Seminar on February 4th, right after the webinar, in sha Allah.

bismillah.

I’m working on a video where I want to answer ALL your questions about “Find Your Mr. Right” 8 Week Online Seminar

So, in the comments section below, ask me your TOP questions about the program and I’ll be sure to answer them all, in sha Allah.  (NOTE: I don’t mean questions about “How To” find your Mr. Right; I mean: questions about the program/seminar itself)

Don’t hold anything back and be as specific as you can.  As usual, you can use a nickname and stay anonymous.

- Megan Wyatt

Contest Details/Rules:

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WHY

I want to give away 1 of the 3 full scholarships to you if you are one of the winners.

Unlike other raffles or drawings, where it’s just chance that you win, the winners here are going to be based on one quality and that is: implementation.

My experience as a coach says that information is only as beneficial as your degree and speed of implementation.

If you wait to apply a new concept or advice, then chances are good that you are NOT going to change or do something different anytime soon.

WHAT

3 FULL (Paid) Scholarships to “Find Your Mr. Right” 8 Week Online Seminar

Amongst many other essential topics, “Find Your Mr. Right” 8 Week Online Seminar will cover:

• • What marriage means from a practicing Muslim brother’s perspective
  • Biggest mistakes single women make before marriage and how you can easily avoid them
  • One change you should make that will make the right man attracted to you
  • A powerful tool that helped 3 sisters get married in less than 6 months
  • Why men marry some women and not others
  • How to let go of your previous emotional hurt and bad experiences
  • Personality traits men want that support a healthy marriage
  • 2 things he wishes you would do so he would propose to you sooner (as a result: you would receive more proposals)
  • And much much more

So many of you have emailed me asking about personal coaching sessions, or counseling sessions to help you out with your marriage goals, but because my time is really limited and I know how 1-on-1 work can have HUGE impact on you…

…I’ll also be doing a 1-on-1 group coaching call with the top winner on Thursday (Jan. 28, 2010) (meaning: she and I will get on the phone for 30 minutes and I’ll coach her LIVE and other sisters can listen-in).  I’ll be doing that in “Find Your Mr. Right” 8 Week Online Seminar, every week, with 2 sisters.

HOW

Answer the following questions below inside “Speak His Language” Members area:

1. What’s your biggest obstacle or challenge to getting married right now?

2. What have you done so far to overcome that obstacle or challenge?

3. How do you think I can help you the most?

4. What were your “Aha!” moments during the last two webinars and in “Speak His Language” video? Based on the information presented there, what will you do right now and how are you going to apply that to your life?

NOTE: You do NOT have to reveal any personal identifying information; you may use nicknames for all of that.

DEADLINE to submit your answer: Sunday, January 31, 2010, 11:59 pm PST

WHAT IF

What if I don’t have access to “Speak His Language” Members Area?

If you don’t have access to “Speak His Language” Members Area, then go to http://www.SpeakHisLanguage.com and get the program for only $1.

What if I missed the webinars?

If you missed any of the first two webinars, you can watch them under “Bonus Resources” section.

What if I have a question?

Email me at sisters@practimate.com

What if I am not between 25 and 30?

You don’t have to be.  You are eligible for a scholarship as long as you are over 18 and you submit before deadline.

What if I want to submit on behalf of someone else?

You may NOT submit on behalf of someone else.